Papers came today

I am scared to pieces. He didn't charge at me but he was beyond hot and his civil sure went out the door.

He was mad because I told my lawyer what we both made last year. His was almost 100k. She did type with his earnings and benefits that basically he made in excess of 100k. That set him off. I said I'm not trying to screw him I told her that and that a lot of it was overtime.

He stormed out of the house after calling me an ungrateful bitch and told me 'you just wait, I'm gonna ruin you' and left.

******update******
Well he left and came back and yelled and fought and he threw stuff, ripped up papers and such, and threw the front room lamp on the floor breaking it. He was here an hour, I'm guessing then left again.

UPS came with his new cell phone so I said look I'm just calling to let you know its here in case you wanted it(he was at melissa's). He called back a minute later and began again yelling at me because I 'stole' money and hired a lawyer. That yelling on phone went on for about 15 minutes. He hung up on me and within 10 minutes was here again for more yelling and angry. He didn't touch me but boy sure has me scared he just made sure to get mm from my face often and yell to show me who's boss. He demanded I change the divorce papers so the kids can see melissa and that he not pay my fees or alimony and in return, he says, he will pay for house car insurance ect. He says he wants 50/50 custody of the boys'so he isn't giving me any damn money'. We fought more, he tore up the marriage license, dumped my purse and took all the cash I had. He took our safe and left(assuming for melissa's).

So I am here scared for my life quiet lierally but trying the brave calm face for the boys while they play on the xbox. I don't know if he will be back again tonight or how long his next tirade will be and its awful.

I hated divorce before but this is rough. He is so angry he could very well hurt me. In anger he did make 2 separate threats of my life saying he could put the end of a pistle in my mouth and pull the trigger. And that 'i will kill you' as he expresses how much he hates me.